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<\/h2>\n<\/h2>\nIf no shoe fits, then please do not attempt to wear one.<\/em><\/p>\n (C)2025 Taveau D’Arcy All copyrights reserved under international copyright laws, in conjunction with AI<\/p>\n Deep Southwest Culture Humor: 2014\u00a0<\/span><\/em> In Christiandom Today..<\/strong>.technically we have the GOODY GOODY TWO SHOES “purity” spectrum of Mama’s Baby Boy, saintly, almost dainty,\u00a0 now grown, who know and heed ALL the Required Rules but are too squeaky clean, super saintly repressed, no earthly good, who can be highly sensitive\u00a0 easily miffed and who quickly may, slides into self pity, tantrums to\u00a0 control…plus also use avoidance , clamming up and defensive accusing\/shaming…TO THE\u00a0 far opposite end of the Christian Men Spectrum is\u00a0 ALPHA He<\/strong> Man . the ruling , authoritarian often aristocratic, and not wholly saved, LP Ministry who maybe ministry cult narcissists , and who might view ALL\u00a0 women LESS THAN, or must be submitted\u00a0 “UNDER THEM” (and\/’or regarded as “theirs)..and as “TYPES…objectified\u00a0 “its”)…meaning .. also certain Vulture Culture (mean)\u00a0 heartless Christian biased ) subcultures as “likely prey” “their property” ” willing ministry, prophetic slaves” which is\u00a0 like the well known mantled I Samuel Eli and both of his fine, talented, Ego Narcissist and opportunist, misogynist ministry office\u00a0 sons.<\/p>\n Today: we are in dire need of REAL Christian<\/strong> active MEN who not two faced, phony, who are SOUND and FAITHFUL, honorable, VIBRANT not VICIOUS…..also NOT “faking it to make it,” “sliding bells and whistles”\u00a0 OR\u00a0 people pleasing “yes men”..nor\u00a0 violent Super Stars. Please share this.<\/p>\n MONEY<\/strong><\/p>\n Also, I will add a term that I learned very recently on TIK TOK\u00a0 \u00a0social media PROVIDER ENERGY.<\/strong>.meaning:\u00a0 A SAVED, BORN AGAIN ,DECENT ” CHRISTIAN” MAN WHO HAS “PROVIDER ENERGY<\/strong> ” a teaching mantra for now (Currently….you special tongue talking Christian ladies usually <\/strong>(yet not all)<\/em> have MORE commitment, understanding of pure Provider Energy…So YOU want to get a MATE that MATCHES WITH YOURS!)<\/p>\n This sound recurring point<\/strong> is available nearly every single day on social media, plus in what we note out\u00a0 here in the deep grass roots).<\/p>\n MENTORING<\/strong><\/p>\n To Elders, Pastors, Parents, Single Parents, Sent Mentors<\/strong>…This is a crucial right now TEACHING POINT.<\/p>\n Aside Do Research as it’s\u00a0 Modern Day\u00a0 Mega Point<\/strong>:<\/p>\n See Apostle Paul’s warning about the Last Days. This includes ministry church as in Hebrews 10:25\u00a0 “Fellowship with the many saints”.\u00a0 I noted 2 Timothy 3:6-8<\/strong> as a potentially curable issue. NOTE it’s the Christian MEN praying on certain types of WOMEN’<\/strong>. I have noted in the past,\u00a0 that due to lax, non existent pure parenting, pastoring, mentoring that\u00a0 BOTH OF THESE GROUPS\u00a0 were not trained or respected by Parents and Pastors in their formative years and are not dysfunctional. SO WHY NOT START TO TRAIN YOUNG BOYS, GIRLS before they turn out like that Note the CURE for this is in the same 2 Timothy 3 chapter at the end, verses 16-17.<\/strong><\/p>\n WHY NOT??<\/strong><\/p>\n TD SAYS:<\/strong><\/p>\n “Let the CHRISTIAN MEN rise up, so WE don’t NEED TO, for most of us do not WANT TO ..However, (in majority true cases) <\/strong><\/span>\u00a0we are FORCED, and MUST rise up…REASON because of the dire, complex, extreme difficult recurring daily WARFARE.” Dr T. D’Arcy<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n **MEANS IN RELATIONSHIPS, PROTECTION,\u00a0 SURVIVAL\u00a0<\/strong> in every day HARD LIFE: also in\u00a0 True Church, Family, Marriage, Parenting, Kids, Handling Real Life, Provider Energy, Bread winning, Relationships, Prayer, True Focus,\u00a0 Media, Politics, Governing, Also tiny regal minded, also biased traditional, immature false teaching yet\u00a0 mantled legalism makes a subculture of small,\u00a0 finicky, weak, usually very mammon conscious, skilled yet, quite tiny thinking, also elite repressed,\u00a0 many continual Jezebel spying, fault finding, even\u00a0 predatory, user sly opportunist and lame passive aggressive biased, authoritarian ruling Pharisee enslaving gullible men (not manly, vigorous, healthy, clean living, self introspecting, masculine\u00a0 robust loving Christian MEN ** Submitted as Christian Selah, not authoritarian LEADER MATRIARCHAL scolding dogma (this is more like a MAVEN (means a “connoisseur” of healthy apostolic training doctrine)<\/p>\n Sister Taveau has never identified herself<\/strong> with secular women’s liberation movements. For one reason, she was raised well respected, cherished and loved by\u00a0 both her sr pastor parents. Also she was not raised under the Old Timey Country Law (like this is about)<\/p>\n Plus, you need to know..t<\/strong>hat this SHE has never once seen herself as attempting to \u201ctake the place of a Christian man.\u201d Much less be a mature pastor, prophetic, ministry teacher or servant apostle. That came later and also super slowly, at the leading, ongoing revelation and by God’s free grace, unusually long suffering gifting. And maybe one more “foolish thing to confound the worldly wise in these”<\/p>\n Now, Sister Taveau<\/strong> believes that she was CALLED and SENT to the charismatic, unusually dysfunction, sometimes biased and even misogynist (prone to use leader females) for the sake of being a liberator to them. And to serve the rest of the Christian ministry, local body as a “well prototype” for the Future Church. But only as an “option, a perspective and a ‘freedom ‘from the old timy accustomed law.<\/p>\n Sister T fully believes<\/strong>, according to the Bible, that in a godly, Bible-abiding Christian marriage, the husband is the head of the home. That was modeled to her by both of her parents\u2014each of whom served as senior pastors\u2014as well as by generations before them on both sides. In her personal life, ministry, and leadership, she upholds Ephesians 5:21, which calls all believers to submit to one another in reverence for Christ.<\/p>\n “Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.” \u2014 Ephesians 5:21 (KJV)<\/strong><\/p>\n Taveau was cautioned by the Lord t<\/strong>o follow Him without bias against men or women, or any race, style, or denomination. Her standard is not outer appearance, title, or tradition, but fruit, Christlike character, and discernment\u2014up close and respectful. After decades of observing the body of Christ firsthand in many streams and movements, she now shares what she has witnessed and tested, openly and scripturally.<\/p>\n Her messages are addressed<\/strong> respectfully to the body of Christ\u2014but specifically to those who have ears to hear. She does not speak as an angry accuser, debater, or divider. She believes every Christian is entitled to their own view, just as she is to hers:<\/p>\n “Work out your own salvation with fear and trembling.” \u2014 Philippians 2:12 (KJV)<\/strong><\/p>\n Taveau Cross Body collaborates.<\/strong> She does\u00a0 not want to argue about, fist fight, “need to win” also\u00a0 does not oppose or compete with other fellow Christian leaders or lay believers who hold different positions.<\/p>\n Sister T refuses to quarrel, debate, or demand agreement.<\/strong> However, she does welcome sincere conversation. In the spirit of James 3:17, she aims to be \u201ceasily entreated\u201d\u2014willing to discuss, reason, and negotiate in respectful relationship.<\/p>\n A new EORR CROSS BODY UNITY<\/strong> (Cross subcultures, people groups, gender, race, age believes MUTUAL decision to “abiding in Transformed Ephesians 4 Pauline Pure Community” (this is without compromising, Bible thumping,\u00a0 without “failing to discern the fellow Body of Christ member correctly” however, our values, theology Bible views disagree, we hold on to our peace, respect in James 2:17 fruit…. without agreeing or\u00a0 condoning, or endorsing.<\/p>\n AREA, LOCAL TV MEDIA PASTOR, MIXTURE PROPHET, SHAME BASED APOSTLE, TOUGH MINDED MINISTER, MEDIA TALKING FACE…AREA, NATIONAL ACCUSING, BELIEVING GOSSIP, SUSPECTING, VIDEO EXPOSES, TIRADES ARE NOT SCRIPTURAL and<\/strong> do more harm than good.<\/p>\n Should we bear the need to confront, <\/strong>then we submit to First Church apostolic protocol 2. In private, face to face<\/p>\n 3. And calmly, respectfully Matthew 18:15-16, meekly Galatians 6:1<\/p>\n \u201cMoreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother.<\/span><\/strong> This is Jesus\u2019 clear protocol:<\/p>\n Private correction first (meek, genuinely humble, face to face, calmly in private)<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/li>\n Then bring 1\u20132 witnesses (no presumption, speculation, tawdry leader gossip)<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/li>\n Goal: Reconciliation<\/strong>, not accusation (hence no public jumping)<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n \u201cBrethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted.\u201d <\/strong>Galatians 6:1 (KJV)<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n This verse teaches:<\/p>\n Only spiritually mature<\/strong> believers should confront<\/p>\n<\/li>\n The goal is restoration<\/strong>, not public shaming<\/p>\n<\/li>\n The attitude must be meek<\/strong>, humble, and aware of one\u2019s own sin nature, weakness,immaturity, vulnerability<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n \u201cNotwithstanding I have a few things against thee, because thou sufferest that woman Jezebel, which calleth herself a prophetess, to teach and to seduce my servants to commit fornication, and to eat things sacrificed unto idols.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n NOTE:\u00a0 This rebuke from Jesus (to the church in Thyatira) is:<\/p>\n Against the leader(s) not the female who was named Jezebel..<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/li>\n Reason. they were frightened of a imposing Christian, in this case a formidable female, named Jezebel.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n However God was openly rebuking THEM (the top lampstand apostle ) for tolerating<\/strong> a false teacher (could have been a man, but this case was a fierce woman)<\/p>\n<\/li>\n The Issues; She was dominating and\u00a0 self-appointed..acting out and not just sitting there reserved and trying to hear God (Like I have been repeatedly non servant leader dominated and accosted) as a newbie leader expat<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n \u00a0Note<\/strong>: Jesus confronts the sr pastor, overseer top leader(s)<\/strong>, not the “Jezebel” (this ought to be taught, as they do the complete opposite.<\/p>\n THEIR TOP FOUNDER, PASTOR APOSTLE LEADER SIN<\/strong> . The sin was allowing<\/strong> Jezebel to continue uncorrected. It was not about attacking women or controlling strong personalities, but removing unrepentant corruption<\/strong> that seduced and defiled others.<\/p>\n The Instruction to Submit Unt<\/strong>o:\u00a0 Church of Thyatira Revelation 2 :20 “go, in (minister Galatians 6:1, Matthew 18:15,16) make an official private appointment. Then calmly\u00a0 face to face, up front, personally interview, correct and set down any “Jezebel” be they man, woman, any other or subculture. And this top leader wise confronting applies to all Christian men and women and lay.<\/p>\n With all of that said: this is the WAY FORWARD “r<\/strong>elating to up front communicate, discuss, forgive, navigate the many tough waters. This next Bible verse is still stands and is about “TWO parties meeting in a safe respecting differing relationship)<\/p>\n “Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord…” \u2014 Isaiah 1:18 (KJV)<\/strong><\/p>\n Both Ministry, Leader, Lay, Family, Pastor, Staff, Elders, Lay, Visitor Character Fruit:\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n “But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated full of mercy and good fruit, without partiality and without hypocrisy…” \u2014 James 3:17 (KJV)<\/strong><\/p>\n Her voice is not one of division but of concern, honor, and spiritual discernment\u2014spoken as a Respected, Submitted Selah, solely for the edification of the Church and the glory of Jesus Christ.<\/p>\n Deborah was:<\/p>\n A prophetess<\/p>\n A judge<\/p>\n A national leader<\/p>\n A commander alongside military leaders like Barak<\/p>\n \u201cDeborah, a prophetess, the wife of Lapidoth, she judged Israel at that time.\u201d<\/strong> Despite male leaders being available<\/strong>, God used Deborah to lead Israel through victory and peace. Barak refused to go into battle unless Deborah went with him. She operated under God’s direction, not seeking power but responding to a national crisis. Her obedience brought 40 years of peace.<\/p>\n \u00a02. HULDAH \u2013 2 KINGS 22:14\u201320<\/strong><\/p>\n Huldah was a prophetess during<\/strong> King Josiah\u2019s reformation. Male leaders\u2014including the high priest and the king’s advisors\u2014chose to seek her out for God\u2019s word, even while prophets like Jeremiah and Zephaniah were alive.<\/p>\n \u201cSo Hilkiah the priest… went unto Huldah the prophetess… and they communed with her.\u201d God confirmed Huldah\u2019s prophetic authority, and her message brought a revival of repentance.<\/p>\n BIG POINT: Some use 1 Timothy 2 to silence all women. However:<\/strong><\/p>\n Paul encouraged women to learn (1 Tim 2:11)<\/p>\n He warned against domineering, not godly teaching (the Greek \u201cauthentein\u201d in 2:12)<\/p>\n He praised female coworkers:<\/p>\n Priscilla taught Apollos (Acts 18:26)<\/p>\n Phoebe was a deacon (Romans 16:1)<\/p>\n Junia was an apostle (Romans 16:7)<\/p>\n Philip\u2019s daughters prophesied publicly (Acts 21:9)<\/p>\n Paul upheld the spiritual equality of women:<\/p>\n \u201cThere is neither male nor female: for ye are all one in Christ Jesus.\u201d \u2014 Galatians 3:28 (KJV)<\/p>\n MODERN IMPLICATIONS<\/strong><\/p>\n Today, the same God who used Deborah and Huldah still calls women:<\/p>\n To speak truth<\/p>\n To bring correction<\/p>\n To lead humbly<\/p>\n To teach in submission to the Holy Spirit<\/p>\n Biblical leadership is not about gender\u2014it\u2019s about fruit, calling, humility, and obedience.<\/p>\n \u00a0CONCLUSION<\/strong><\/p>\n The Bible affirms women in ministry when their calling is from God, their fruit is pure, and their motives are servant-hearted. Deborah and Huldah weren\u2019t exceptions to the rule\u2014they were examples of how God works through available vessels.<\/p>\n God doesn\u2019t use someone because they\u2019re a man or woman\u2014He uses the one who is faithful.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n TO SUPPORT: Please ongoing pray!<\/strong><\/p>\n TO GIVE: Deborah, Huldah, and the Calling of Faith-Filled Women: A Biblical Defense for Women in Ministry Today<\/span><\/h2>\n
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\nQ. How many Good Ole Ministry Boys does it take to install a light bulb?<\/span><\/em>
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\n**CHRISTIAN “Saintly” People Pleasing Persona Perfectionist LEGALIST <\/span><\/p>\n“Thou Art Highly Bound” (and mostly big Boss User Tyrannical)<\/span><\/h2>\n
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<\/h2>\nPreface: A Personal Note from Sister Taveau D\u2019Arcy<\/span><\/h2>\n
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\n1.\u00a0 Make an appointment<\/p>\nMatthew 18:15\u201316 (KJV)<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n
But if he will not hear thee, then take with thee one or two more, that in the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established<\/span>.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n
Galatians 6:1<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n
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Revelation 2:20 (KJV)<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n1. DEBORAH \u2013 JUDGES 4\u20135<\/span><\/h2>\n
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\n\u20142 Kings 22:14 (KJV)<\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.taveaucreativeleadership.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/Screen-Shot-2025-07-10-at-2.57.16-PM-300x273.png\")
\n\u00a0NEW TESTAMENT ALIGNMENT \u2013 PAUL AND WOMEN<\/strong><\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.taveaucreativeleadership.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/Screen-Shot-2025-07-06-at-4.10.31-PM-231x300.png\")
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